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9 Ways to Mix Up Valentines

Yup. It's almost here. With the pink and red balloons, flower bouquets, and chocolate hearts at every turn, there is no doubt that V-day is upon us.

Here are some ways to mix it up this Valentines day...

1. Family movie night. If you have kids, maybe rent a new movie and get that air popper out. One of my favorite treats as a child was finding chocolate chips in the popcorn bowl! Enjoy some snuggles while you are at it!

2. Homemade Card Share. I know, I know, there are stores that sell cards. We don't have to be so old fashioned anymore. Hear me out. There is something thoroughly sweet about getting a homemade card. They are personalized, tailored just for the recipients, with favorite colors, pictures, and phrases. As kids, we would make cards for each member of the family and then gather around and card swap. It was an event that took time and effort, which in turn has created a lasting memory.

3. If it's just the two of you or you miraculously found a babysitter, romantic date night is so on. Break out that wine bottle you've been saving. Prepare a favorite meal. Aú gratin potatoes and asparagus with a Hollandaise sauce anyone? Dress up! Make it special. Play footsies under a candle lit table. Have an amazing date night with a comfortable price tag!

4. Poems. I am a lover of poetry and writings, so I'm naturally drawn to this approach. Maybe write your loved one a poem. It can be cheesy. However, I know writing isn't for everyone. So, maybe leave it to the professionals. There is nothing wrong with reading a little Shakespeare to set the mood.

5. Spread the love. As a couple or family, show love to someone outside your home. Maybe a picture for your librarian, a warm cookie for your mailman, or a hot cup of coffee for a homeless person. Visit an old folks home, a shelter, or an orphanage (Be sure to call first on these). That reminds me, I need to take my own advice this holiday. Noted!

6. Practical gift. We have taken a minimalist approach to life, so gifts need to be practical to remain in our tiny living space. This year, following ripped jeans a few weeks ago, the kiddos are getting new pants. Wam bam, thank you ma'am.

7. Paint her toes. This one makes me giggle. I'm envisioning my reader's eyes got real big just now. Ya ya, well call me crazy, but I think it's adorable. No, this is not for everyone, so skip on if this gives you anxiety. But I recall being glum one day and my husband came to cheer me up by painting my toenails. Did he do a great job? Sorry babe, nope. When he was finished though, I did that whole laugh cry thing. It was such a sweet, selfless act that I've never forgotten.

8. Game night. Why not call a few family friends over and have a good ol' Taboo throw down?! Maybe whip out a game of spoons or take it old school with some charades. Share the holiday with friends that add love and joy into your life!

9. Nothing. I do declare this has to be my most brilliant idea ever. Okay, maybe not, but keep reading. There is a ton of pressure to have the best Valentine's day. Whether it be the best gifts or the most expensive dinner, it seems like there is a lot of expectation. Sometimes, I just don't go for that. Yup, we've skipped this sacred holiday before and our marriage survived. Just be sure to communicate so everyone is on the same page!

No matter what you decide to do on February 14th, I hope it is filled with joy! Cheers!
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