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After reading one of those mom empowering articles, I was challenged. Challenge accepted!

See, this mom painted a picture of standing in front of a mirror and not knowing who was staring back. Deep and profound thinking began.

I'm finding many moms are in the same boat. We become moms and give all of ourselves into that role. It's a beautiful title to hold and cherish. But something happens. We often give of ourselves until it hurts and then we give a little more. I think that is when the reflection in the mirror becomes skewed. We become thoroughly depleted. An empty shell going through the motions.

So, I want to remember who I am, when I see those tired eyes staring back. I am a wife. I am a mom. I am a sister, daughter, and friend. Those are all the things I am that involve somebody else. Take all that away and here is what's left...

I am a writer. Vegan. Hippie. Tennis player. Bike rider. Sci-fi Nerd. Camper. Homemade & Handmade junkie. Seeker of deep conversations. Night owl. Entrepreneur. I am stubborn. Loud. Passionate. Lost in thought. An overcomer. I am a follower of Christ. Dreamer. Outdoorsy. Health conscious. Fitness inspired.

More than just a tired, overwhelmed mom with black bags under the eyes & the complexion of a teenager because I can't recall my last shower. I'm more than just the baggy, comfy, grandpa sweats, and the stained t-shirt. I'm more than the updo, unbrushed, or bedhead I'm sporting today.

I am more. And so are you.

Mom's, let us be confident in the person staring back at us in that water spotted mirror. We each have a purpose in life and that is not something to lose sight of.

I challenge you to take a good look in the mirror, before the kids get up. Remember your passions & who you are. Make time to be the best version of YOU.

Signing off,
Shantel

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